My first question for Sam: Is he one of those gay guys who get off on “servicing” straight guys? Sam came out at the end of his freshman year, to THROAT and his other friends, and he now lives in a big city where he works in marketing when he isn’t sucking off THROAT. He grew up on the East Coast and met THROAT early in his first year at college. “And I am flattered he told you I was good at it. “Yes, I have been sucking my straight friend’s cock,” Sam said to me. I wasn’t serious-it was my way of saying, “You should really ask Sam.” But you sent me Sam’s contact info, and a few minutes later, I was chatting with Sam. Since you were clearly too afraid to ask Sam yourself (most likely over fear that the blowjobs would stop), I offered to ask Sam on your behalf. Which means I have no way of knowing for sure why that woman ghosted you or if your boyfriend is gay-or in your case, THROAT, how Sam feels about the four norecip blowjobs he’s given you.Īnd that’s why I wrote you back, THROAT, and asked you for Sam’s contact information. And while I’m perfectly happy to speculate, I’m not a mind-reader. Guys ask me why a woman ghosted them, and women ask me if their boyfriend is secretly gay. Zooming out for a second: People constantly ask me how the person they’re fucking or fisting or flogging feels about all the fucking or fisting or flogging they’re doing. Only one person knows how Sam feels about this “lopsided sexual arrangement,” THROAT, and it isn’t me-it’s Sam. Totally Have Reservations Over Advantage Taking But these are literally the only blowjobs I’ve received since I was a teenager. Sam knows I am not into guys, and I’m never going to reciprocate, and I feel like this is probably not really fair to him. He’s a very good buddy, and I’m concerned this lopsided sexual arrangement might be bad for our friendship. My problem is I am starting to feel guilty and worry I am using Sam. Since then, Sam has blown me three more times. I was glad to get some and had no hang-ups about a guy sucking me. Shortly after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was discussing my lack of oral sex with Sam, and he said he’d be willing to “help me out.” I agreed, and Sam gave me an earth-shattering blowjob. Which brings me to why I am writing: One of my closest friends, “Sam,” is a gay guy. I didn’t get a blowjob the whole time we were together. She had a particular aversion to oral sex-both giving and receiving.
One of the reasons we broke up was a general lack of sexual compatibility. I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years.